Turning 40: The Happiness Curve and Lessons I’m Carrying Forward

What if the statistical "low point" of your life is actually the perfect place to pause, reframe, and choose what you're carrying into the next season?

In this vulnerable and encouraging episode, I'm turning 40 (literally, today!) —and according to research on the "happiness curve," I'm entering the “nadir”, the absolute lowest point of the human contentment on the curve. But instead of spiraling into a midlife crisis, I'm choosing to see this moment differently.

This isn't about arriving at some perfect destination. It's about standing at the crossroads, catching my breath, and deciding which bags I'm ready to keep carrying and which ones I'm finally leaving on the side of the road.

What You'll Discover:

Why the "low point" of the happiness curve is actually an invitation to reframe your expectations and cultivate an expectant heart

The difference between balance (a myth) and practical balance (a dance)

How to find meaning in life's interruptions—ex: why my gluten allergy became one of my greatest gifts 

The power of being a beginner, creating more than you consume, and pausing before reacting

Why "directionally correct" matters more than distance traveled

>What I'm Carrying Into This Decade<

• Be a cheerleader
• Create more than you consume
• Presence over perfection AND productivity
• Practice the power of the pause
• Build boundaries, not walls
• Limitations are actually a gift
• Movement as a sustainable lifestyle, not a rigid program
• Invest in your marriage and friendships through the seasons
• Be where you are—and don't rush this season

If you're feeling like you're at a low point, hear this: Your expectant heart can be higher than ever, even when your expectations for perfection are low. This chaotic, hopeful mess? It's exactly where you're supposed to be.

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